BE THE SOLUTION. CREATE A HAPPY FAMILY. BENEFIT FINANCIALLY.
HELP CREATE A HAPPY FAMILY AND RECEIVE THE BEST CARE & SUPPORT ALONG YOUR JOURNEY.
Giving the gift of life to someone who cannot have a baby on their own is a beautiful thing. You could be the person to change their lives forever! See why these women chose surrogacy at Surrogate Solutions.
WHAT IS SURROGACY?
Surrogacy is the act of carrying a baby (not genetically related to you) for someone else. During the surrogacy process, not only are you giving the couple or individual you are carrying for an amazing gift, you are creating moms, dads, aunts, uncles, grandparents, and extended family. You are changing lives and making dreams come true for so many!
Throughout the surrogacy process, you will be supported by our team of professionals (all of whom have been surrogates themselves), and they will guide you through your pregnancy to delivery. You may start your journey wanting to give to another family, but you will be changed in the process. You will experience overwhelming joy and satisfaction, knowing you were able to make such an impact…and without you, they would not have created their happy family!
5 Reasons to become a surrogate with Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions
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You Love to Give
You could be the solution for a family that needs a surrogate to help them become parents or grow their family. Gestational Carriers change lives, make dreams come true & continue to be a part of someones story.
None of this would be possible without your incredible gift
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You Choose Who You Carry For
With Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, YOU get to select who you carry for.
You will request your "ideal match" & our team will share the profiles we have that meet your requirements. You will get to virtually meet & select "the one's".
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You Desire Empathy & Support
At Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, you will be cared for & supported by an agency of former surrogates. We did it, you can too! To date we have personally carried for 24 families.
You will be given your own personal care coordinator from beginning to end (including postpartum). Our level of empathy, support, and advocacy goes above & beyond. We will be by your side every step of the way.
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Benefit Financially
As a surrogate, you are compensated for your time, commitment, &dedication to helping to create a happy family. While doing so, you family will also benefit financially!
Gestational Carriers are compensated *$50,000+
*$50,000 is an average base compensation with additional compensation paid on top of base for bonuses & reimbursement for additional expenses.
HELP A FAMILY IN A WAY THAT VERY FEW WOMEN CAN
DO YOU QUALIFY AS A SURROGATE?
Are you between the ages of 21 and 40 years of age?
Are you raising at least one child that you have birthed?
Are you in overall good health? BMI must be 33 or below and why.
Are you financially independent and not receiving any state or federal government assistance (Medicaid, CHIP, WIC, Food Stamps, etc)?
Do you have a flexible schedule where you can commit to appointments?
Are you content with the number of children you have birthed and raising?
Is it true that you have had no serious medical problems during pregnancy or delivery, including no pre-term deliveries before 36 weeks (unless in the event of multiples)?
Additional Qualificationsa
- Must have had no more than 2 c-sections.
- Must be free of all sexually-transmitted diseases.
- Must be a non-smoker and living in a smoke-free environment.
- Must be willing to undergo a psychological and physical evaluation.
- Must be willing to have a criminal background check completed on her and spouse/partner.
- Must have full emotional support from spouse/partner, if applicable.
- Spouse/partner must agree to undergo a psychological evaluation and medical screening.
- Must be able to provide us with previous delivery records.
- Must be cleared by OB.
- No tattoos or piercings in the last 6-12 months (12 months preceding embryo transfer)
- Must have a stable residence and not be planning to move out of the state in which the gestational carrier/surrogate lives once accepted into our program
- Must be financially stable and not depending on surrogate compensation to aid in general living expenses.
- Must live in a "Surrogate Friendly" state where parentage can be established by the intended parents without an ‘adoption’ scenario. (Alabama , Alaska, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Hawaii, Illinois, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming) *Surrogate Solutions follows guidelines outlined by ASRM..
If you answered yes, we encourage you to consider helping a family.
THE MATCHING PROCESS WITH EGG DONOR & SURROGATE SOLUTIONS
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COMPLETE AN APPLICATION
This is simple and easy. Share about your pregnancies, family, and expectations for a journey.
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INTERVIEW WITH A MEMBER OF OUR TEAM
We will then request your medical records and complete a background check.
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VIEW THE PROFILES OF FAMILIES YOU COULD HELP
Our Director of Matching will send you profiles of families who match what you are looking for in a journey. Some considerations will be location, views on a birth experience, contact throughout the journey and after, termination, and additional expectations you may have.
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PARTICIPATE IN A MATCH MEETING
Get to know the family (face to face) you are going to be helping. Share your hopes and expectations and start forming the beautiful and rewarding relationship that surrogacy cultivates.
WHAT ARE YOU COMPENSATED FOR YOUR TIME IN THE PROCESS OF BEING A GESTATIONAL CARRIER?
OUR FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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Do I have to receive the COVID-19 vaccine? No. Surrogate Solutions has always matched like-minded surrogates with like-minded Intended Parents. If we have Intended Parents that do not want or mind if you do not want the COVID-19 vaccine and they are working with a clinic that does not require that surrogates have the COVID-19 vaccine, then you can be matched without receiving the COVID-19 vaccine. However, recent studies have shown there is a much higher risk of complications and possibly death from COVID-19 in pregnant women and for this reason ACOG, ASRM, and the CDC have changed their position to strongly recommending the COVID-19 vaccine for pregnant women. Most clinics are requiring it for surrogates for the above reasons as well.
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What is it like to give the baby up after delivery? A gestational carrier would not be “giving the baby up”. She’d be giving the baby back to the parents that had chosen her to carry for them! There is no genetic connection between a gestational carrier and the surrogate baby/ies she carries. Sometimes people aren’t aware of this fact, but it definitely helps the carrier and her family to mentally prepare before and during the pregnancy. The carrier is preparing to hand the parents their baby back, and she fully understands that the baby was never hers to begin with.
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How long does it take to find a match? Most surrogates are matched with Intended Parents of their choice within a week of being cleared since we have so many Intended Parents already waiting. It may take several weeks to complete the clearance process because we need to obtain all of your prenatal and delivery records, a recent pap smear, and a clearance letter from your OBGYN. You will then meet with the matching team to discuss your preferences and you will be able to view compatible Intended Parent profiles for you to choose from.
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What are the medications like to become a surrogate? The medications to become pregnant as a gestational carrier can vary depending on the clinic’s protocol. Some clinics require patients to give themselves injectable medications while others may not require any injectables at all. It is always best to prepare yourself for the possibility of having to administer shots at home, but this is something you may or may not have to do.
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Do you really get paid to be a surrogate? You do not get a paycheck since surrogacy is not a job, but you are compensated for the time and effort during the process. The compensation amount can vary from contract to contract. This is a private agreement between the Intended Parents and their carrier. The agreed-upon compensation is not guaranteed since the achievement of pregnancy is never guaranteed, but once you are pregnant, monthly installments are paid over the course of the pregnancy. There could be many factors such as unsuccessful embryo transfers or miscarriage that could cause compensation to never start or even halt.
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What is the typical compensation for a surrogate? Base Compensation starts at $40,000 for a first-time carrier without insurance. Please see the Surrogate Compensation LINK for more details on additional compensation.
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Do you get to meet the parents? Yes! Once you have selected your Intended parents and they have agreed to a match meeting, a member of our matching team will schedule and facilitate a video call for everyone to get to know each other. Once everyone agrees to the match, you will be able to meet in person. If you are local this could be as soon as the next weekend. If you are not local, you will likely meet when you travel to their clinic for the medical screening appointment. In the beginning, you may feel like acquaintances that met through an agency, but by the end of the pregnancy, you will likely know each other very well. There are some Intended Parents that find it very hard to develop a personal relationship with their carrier due to previous heartaches and losses. Each match is unique in this respect. The level of involvement that each party wants is part of what makes a compatible match and is covered in the matching process when choosing Intended Parents and will also be discussed in the match meeting.
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Is there anything you’re not allowed to eat or do during a surrogate pregnancy? You are allowed to eat and participate in normal low-risk activities as you usually would during any normal, healthy pregnancy per your OBs guidelines. Unless there is a specific agreement between the carrier and her Intended Parents to avoid certain items, she may carry on per her doctor’s recommendations. Obviously, the usual substances like nicotine, alcohol, and drugs are NEVER allowed. There could be specific food requests based on religion or lifestyle preferences that Intended Parents may request of their surrogate prior to matching. These specifics are usually brought up on applications and during the match meeting so there are no surprises later. If either party were to not feel sure about the requests, it would need to be discussed before a definite match was determined.
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How much input will the surrogate have over the pregnancy? For the most part, the surrogate has a very large say in the pregnancy. The Surrogate and Intended Parents should be in agreement with each other over factors like home birth vs hospital, vaccinations during the pregnancy vs no vaccinations, and having optional testing done throughout the pregnancy. Both parties should always go into surrogacy with a great deal of trust and respect for one another. Everyone should always strive to make major decisions together.
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Will I get to pick my own OB or will I need to go to the Intended Parent’s doctor throughout the pregnancy? You will get to pick your own OB for prenatal care and delivery as long as they are a qualified medical provider. You do have to go to the IP’s IVF doctor until you are released to your OB for care, which is usually around 10 weeks of pregnancy. If their doctor is not local, you will only have to travel to them twice, for the medical screening and again for the embryo transfer, but you will be able to do monitoring appointments at a clinic local to you.
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How much travel is involved? It depends on which Intended Parents you choose. If you match with a local couple, you won’t need to travel. If they are not local, you will need to travel to wherever their IVF clinic is 2-3 times. This depends on what each clinic requires of their patients. Usually, the first trip is for medical screening and the second one for embryo transfer. There could be an additional trip for a mock transfer or ERA, but this is not routine for all clinics. Long-distance travel is kept to a minimum whenever possible, and all costs are paid by the Intended Parents.
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What if I’m a single mother? Can I still be a surrogate? Absolutely! It is not a requirement to be married in order to become a gestational carrier. There are numerous single mothers that pursue surrogacy without a spouse or significant other. If you have a good support system in place, you can be a surrogate!
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How involved will my significant other need to be? Your significant other needs to be on board and supportive of you pursuing this journey. They will be required to participate in the match meeting with Intended Parents and show their support. During the screening process, clinics require the surrogate’s partner to undergo a blood test to ensure they are STD free, and they will participate in the psychological evaluation. During the legal contracts, if you are a married couple, both parties must sign the contract. Your significant other is usually the biggest part of your support system during pregnancy. Their involvement in the process is small overall, but very key to a healthy and happy journey.
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How do I help my children understand what I am choosing to do? The best advice we can give is to keep it sweet and simple. Children tend to understand better when you put it into terms they understand. There are several children’s books to explain that this is a way to help a Mommy or Daddy that cannot have a baby on their own. Children of surrogates have the perfect life example of what it’s like to do something selfless for someone else. It’s a great teaching opportunity if you choose to do so. How much you want to explain to your children is your personal choice, but sometimes your children can be your biggest cheerleaders!
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What are the benefits of using an agency? You have a team designed to help YOU! As an agency, we are here to support, advocate, and educate you on the process of being a surrogate. We are here to ensure all your questions are asked, you are cared for, to advocate/mediate if needed, just to be an extra person to help you navigate this exciting experience. ALL of our team members have been surrogates themselves so we understand your feelings and are committed to supporting you.
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How many embryos are usually transferred? 1. There are a few clinics that will still agree to transfer 2 embryos and there are the occasional Intended Parents that will request their surrogate transfer 2 embryos. If you are only comfortable with carrying one baby, it is wise to only transfer one embryo. Occasionally an embryo can split resulting in twins, but that cannot be predicted. Being sure of how many babies you are willing to carry can greatly minimize the need for fetal reduction or termination that sometimes can occur with multiples pregnancies.
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If the surrogate changes her mind, at what point is it ok to walk away? This question is a challenging question to answer. A surrogate is usually allowed to walk away from a match at any point in the process as long there is no viable pregnancy. The decision to break a match should never be made lightly, same as the decision to make a match. Worst case scenario, if the surrogate is already pregnant and feels the match is irreparable, she cannot break the match but can resort to using the agency coordinator (or another mediator such as her attorney or similar entity) to communicate for the remainder of the pregnancy.
EVERY MEMBER OF OUR TEAM HAS CARRIED A BABY FOR A LOVING FAMILY, THAT’S WHY WE ARE ABLE TO GUIDE AND SUPPORT YOU EVERY STEP OF YOUR SURROGATE JOURNEY.
Katy Encalade has always been driven by a deep, unwavering desire to serve others. In 2006 she discovered her calling in the egg donor industry. Working with an agency, Katy had the incredible opportunity to walk Intended Parents through the journey of creating their own families and experiencing immeasurable joy. But her heart yearned to make an even more personal impact, leading her to establish Egg Donor Solutions.
Every day, Katy engages in heartfelt conversations with couples and individuals who are longing to complete their families with the help of an egg donor. She becomes their guiding light, helping them navigate the selection process to find a donor who is not only willing but also shares their heartfelt desire to make an indelible difference in their lives.
Katy’s own experiences of easy and joyous pregnancies sparked a powerful realization within her. She felt an undeniable calling to give the miraculous gift of life by becoming a surrogate herself. Surrounded by the unwavering support of her loving family and working closely with Gayle from Surrogate Solutions, Katy embraced this surrogacy journey.
Through the remarkable network of Surrogate Solutions, Katy was matched with a couple who was absolutely amazing. From the very beginning, it was as if fate had brought them together. Their shared values, beliefs, and dreams seamlessly aligned, making the decision to embark on this transformative path together an effortless one. In no time, they forged a deep connection, becoming like family. They opened up, sharing their hopes, dreams, and even finding solace in their mutual interests.
As Katy’s pregnancy progressed, her bond with the intended parents blossomed even further. Finally, the day arrived when she delivered a precious bundle of joy into their arms—an exquisite moment of profound love and fulfillment. Katy delivered one little guy via c-section and says, ‘’The best part of this process was watching his parents hold him for the first time. I was the most beautiful thing I have ever seen.’’ The time in the hospital post-delivery was spent chatting, snuggling, and the intended parents continuing to forge a relationship with Katy’s three kiddos. Katy shares, “One of the sweetest moments I remember is my youngest (3.5 years) on the floor as the intended mom is French Braiding her hair, while my 6 year old is behind her braiding hers. They were invested in our family just as much as we were invested in theirs.” But the story did not end there with one family. Fate intervened once more, introducing Katy to two fathers who had just welcomed their own little girl through a gestational carrier at the same hospital just one day later. With a heart brimming with compassion, Katy decided to pump milk for their sweet girl for several precious months.
Becoming a surrogate was a profound and life-changing experience for Katy and her family, etching itself as one of the most extraordinary journeys they had ever embarked upon. Overwhelmed by a tidal wave of love, she truly comprehended the immeasurable joy that surrogacy brings to families, leaving an indelible mark on her heart.
Today, as the Executive Director of Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, Katy continues to respond to her heartfelt calling, creating happiness and changing lives. Together with her team of compassionate women, she educates and empowers others, inspiring them to make a lasting difference by selflessly giving of themselves. Katy firmly believes that whether through egg donation or surrogacy, there is no greater calling for women than blessing their own families while weaving the fabric of joy and hope into the lives of others. It is a journey that transcends words, evoking profound emotions and changing lives in ways that are simply beyond measure.
The inception of Gayle’s incredible journey began when she discovered her profound calling to help others after the birth of her first child. The memory of her pregnancy resonated deeply within her heart, and it was as if destiny whispered to her, igniting the spark of surrogacy.
With unwavering determination and boundless empathy, Gayle founded Surrogate Solutions in 2007, driven by her belief that every Intended Parent and Surrogate deserved an intimately personal and supportive experience. In a world where many feel disconnected from their passions, Gayle is a shining example of “doing what you love and never working a day in your life.” She exudes an overflowing love for others, and this love is unmistakably evident in the way she conducts her business.
Gayle’s own surrogacy journey was marked by both challenges and triumphs. Initially hesitant, she realized she was not yet prepared to embark on this sacred path. But as life unfolded, and with the love of her family complete, she knew the time had come to heed the calling that tugged at her heartstrings. With grace and selflessness, she embraced her role as a surrogate, ready to help another family’s dreams come true.
As fate would have it, her first surrogacy attempt did not end as she had hoped. But rather than be disheartened, Gayle turned this experience into a catalyst for change. Inspired by the desire to create a nurturing and personal connection for all involved, she vowed to make a difference in the world of surrogacy. She knew she could not carry for every hopeful couple, but she could create a sanctuary of empathy and guidance for those on their own surrogacy journeys.
As the years went by, Gayle waited for the perfect match that would reignite the fire of surrogacy within her heart. And when she found them, a profound connection blossomed, reaffirming her purpose. The love and bond between Gayle and the Intended Parents grew, their families becoming intertwined, and she found herself surrounded by unwavering support during the magical moment of birth. Witnessing the fulfillment of her Intended Parents’ dreams was a defining moment of pure bliss—the culmination of her selfless act, enriching their lives forever.
Today, Gayle and the entire team at Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions strive to make each surrogacy journey an extraordinary experience, filled with warmth, care, and unwavering support. Their mission is not just to facilitate the creation of families but to ensure that every surrogate and intended parent feels cherished, valued, and embraced throughout their profound and life-changing voyage. Through her boundless heart, Gayle has touched countless lives, leaving a legacy of love, hope, and family bonds that endure for generations.
Lauren’s introduction to the world of surrogacy began with a revelation – a deep inner calling that whispered, “I could do that.” Her pregnancies had been smooth sailing, almost effortless, and she couldn’t ignore the feeling that she possessed a special gift to share with others. As she confided in those around her, she heard many voices questioning the possibility, except for one: her own mother, who nostalgically confessed her desire to have been a surrogate three decades ago. It was as if destiny reached out to Lauren, guiding her toward a remarkable path.
Taking that leap of faith, Lauren connected with Surrogate Solutions (now Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions) and was soon matched with a local couple seeking help to fulfill their dream of becoming parents. From the moment they met, an instant spark of warmth and connection enveloped them, and their shared journey quickly blossomed into a beautiful friendship. Lauren embarked on a twin pregnancy that can only be described in one word: Joy.
Her experience brought immense joy not only in the profound ability to give this precious gift of growing a family but also in nurturing the glimmer of hope within the couple after enduring struggles and loss. Witnessing their hope transform into the overwhelming joy of parenthood filled her heart with indescribable happiness.
While some surrogates choose to complete multiple surrogacy journeys to extend the joy they bring to others, Lauren felt a unique calling. She knew she had to become a guiding force and approached the then owner of Surrogate Solutions with a vision to grow the company. Since 2010, Lauren has been an integral part of the Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions team, where she still finds immense pleasure in sitting down with intended parents, listening to their stories of resilience, and igniting that initial glimmer of hope within them.
She deeply connects with each surrogate, helping them fulfill their own desires to make a difference. Lauren takes immense pride in her role as the Surrogate Matching & Education Director, ensuring that every intended parent and surrogate find their perfect fit. This way, they, too, can experience the transformative joy that once changed Lauren’s life.
Angela’s journey into the world of surrogacy began with a heartfelt revelation that touched her soul. Inspired by a family member who longed for more children but faced health challenges, Angela couldn’t shake the idea that she might one day be able to make a difference in someone else’s life through surrogacy. Though she didn’t fully understand the concept at the time, the seed was planted, and life continued to bless her with three beautiful children over the next 12 years.
One day, Angela’s path intersected with that of a neighbor who had just completed her own surrogacy journey. As she listened to her neighbor’s moving account, Angela was captivated by the sense of fulfillment and joy that emanated from the parents and the surrogate alike on delivery day. The feeling of contributing to the creation of a family in such a profound way resonated deeply within her. Angela couldn’t ignore the call she felt, describing it as a higher purpose, a chance to be a part of something greater than herself.
In 2012, Angela embarked on her first surrogacy journey. Her match was with a single Intended Father from Argentina, and she was determined to make his dream of having twins come true. Two embryos were transferred, and Angela became pregnant with twin boys. To her delight, the pregnancy was surprisingly smooth and easy, devoid of complications or discomforts. The day she delivered the twins was an unforgettable moment, witnessing the overwhelming joy in the Intended Father’s eyes as he welcomed his babies into the world. That experience filled Angela’s heart with immense gratitude and purpose.
Despite facing challenges in her second surrogacy journey, Angela’s commitment to helping others remained steadfast. Her perseverance was rewarded when Surrogate Solutions (now Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions) connected her with the “perfect family.” Angela carried two more boys, creating new bonds and lasting connections with the families she helped bring together.
However, as much as she cherished her role as a surrogate, Angela recognized that her path was leading her toward a new chapter. In 2019, she achieved her dream job as a Surrogate Coordinator (now Surrogacy Coordination Manager!), enabling her to continue her heartfelt mission in a different capacity. Angela’s excitement to assist both surrogates and intended parents in their quest for happiness and completion of their families knows no bounds.
Throughout her incredible journey, Angela’s compassion and selflessness shone brightly. She embraced the role of a surrogate with open arms, leaving a trail of heartwarming stories and meaningful connections in her wake. Her unwavering dedication to helping others create the families they yearned for was a testament to the incredible power of love and the profound impact one person can have on the lives of many. Angela’s story reminds us all that the bonds of family are not limited by blood, but rather by the love, kindness, and generosity of the human spirit.
Allyson radiates warmth and love in everything she does. Her journey began with personal struggles, as she faced the challenges of polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) and experienced the heartache of multiple ectopic pregnancies. But it was these very trials that led her to discover the path of surrogacy, a path filled with purpose and the chance to bring immeasurable joy to others.
Through her role as a Surrogacy Coordinator, Allyson forms a unique bond with intended parents and surrogates, supporting them every step of the way, from the initial match to the joyful moment after delivery. Her personal experiences have given her a profound understanding of the perspectives of both parties, allowing her to be a strong advocate for their hopes and dreams.
Allyson’s story is one of miracles and sweet surprises. After deciding not to pursue any more fertility treatments, life gifted her an unexpected joy—a natural pregnancy while she was weaning her son. This blessing paused her surrogacy plans for a while as she welcomed her third child, a precious daughter, into the world.
In 2011, Allyson was ready to embrace her calling as a surrogate. She was matched with intended parents in Dallas and delivered their son in May 2012. Witnessing the uncontainable happiness in the eyes of the new parents as they met their baby for the first time was a moment that touched Allyson’s heart profoundly. It was then that she knew her purpose was to continue helping families grow through surrogacy.
Her second journey took her to New York City, where she was matched with another set of intended parents. In 2013, Allyson delivered their son and, later on, embarked on a sibling journey after the family moved to Miami. In 2016, she joyfully welcomed their second son into the world. Allyson’s connection with this family didn’t end with the deliveries—she continued to nurture a close relationship with them, visiting them in Miami, and cherishing the precious bonds formed along the way.
The blessings in Allyson’s life continued, as she received another unexpected gift with the birth of her fourth child, a loving son, in 2017. Through it all, she remained devoted to the families she had carried for, cherishing the shared moments and celebrating the milestones as they created their own stories of love and happiness.
To Allyson, being a Surrogacy Coordinator is not merely a job—it is her life’s calling, and her heart is genuinely invested in the well-being and joy of others. She continues to be an integral part of the lives of the families she has helped create, taking pride in witnessing the children thrive and the joy reflected on their parents’ faces. Allyson’s journey is one filled with love, hope, and the unwavering commitment to making dreams come true for others, spreading warmth and happiness wherever she goes.
Barette is a truly heartwarming soul who radiates love and compassion. She embodies the essence of family and cherishes her role as a wife and mother to her two incredible boys. To Barette and her husband, family is not just a word; it’s the cornerstone of their lives, and they celebrate this bond with matching family tattoos that symbolize their unity and love.
The journey to motherhood was a profound realization for Barette. Witnessing her friends struggle with infertility, she felt an unwavering desire to help make their dreams of parenthood a reality. Inspired by a friend who was a surrogate, Barette delved into the world of surrogacy, and it felt like destiny. In 2014, she embarked on her first surrogacy journey, matched with an amazing couple, and her own family and the intended parents formed an unbreakable bond that continues to this day. Her sons became honorary uncles to the child she carried, and their connection transcends time, making them lifelong friends.
The joy Barette experienced during her first surrogacy journey was something she couldn’t let go of; she knew she wanted to continue helping others create families. Researching agencies, she stumbled upon Surrogate Solutions (now Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions). What drew her in was the warm and family-like atmosphere, the personal interaction, and the fact that the agency was owned and run by former surrogates who truly understood the journey. In 2018, Barette found herself matched with another remarkable couple, one that had been longing for a child for a decade. Their instant connection was palpable, and together they embarked on their surrogacy journey, which turned out to be a smooth and beautiful experience. Witnessing the parents’ overwhelming joy as they held their baby for the first time was indescribable for Barette—a moment she treasures as one of the most fulfilling experiences of her life.
But Barette’s passion to help create families did not stop there; it continued to grow and evolve. In April 2019, she joined the Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions team as their Brand & Community Specialist. With her heart full of love and empathy, she was thrilled to have the opportunity to support and guide surrogates and intended parents, helping them fulfill their dreams of parenthood and creating their own happy families.
Barette’s warmth and genuine care shine through in everything she does. Her journey has been one of love, selflessness, and spreading joy to those in need. Her life’s work revolves around the simple yet profound act of helping others experience the profound beauty of family, and she continues to touch lives in ways that are truly heartwarming.
Meg’s journey is a testament to her deep compassion and selflessness. With a master’s degree in social work and a genuine passion for serving others, she embarked on a path that would change lives forever. Before joining Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, Meg dedicated herself to hospice care and early childhood education, already making a profound impact on the lives of those she encountered.
As the Intended Parent Onboarding & Matching Coordinator, Meg takes on a vital role in guiding both surrogates and intended parents through the emotional and intricate surrogacy process. Having been a surrogate twice herself, she wholeheartedly understands the significance of this extraordinary journey. For Meg, assisting intended parents in creating their families is not just a job, but a calling to serve others in a profound and meaningful way.
Meg’s introduction to the world of surrogacy is an enchanting tale of serendipity. After watching an episode of “The Little Couple” on TLC, she knew deep within that she could make a difference, but she sought more information before taking the leap. Little did she know that fate had a special plan for her. Through divine providence, she crossed paths with Gayle Garrett, the founder of Surrogate Solutions, at their church in Waco, Texas. The moment she met Gayle, she knew it was destiny guiding her towards this incredible journey.
Her decision to become a surrogate was deeply rooted in her own experience with infertility. Having faced secondary infertility with her husband after the birth of their daughter, they turned to invitro fertilization to welcome their twin boys. Amidst this challenging period, their hearts were filled with love when they welcomed their fourth child, a daughter, into the world, born in between her life-changing surrogacy journeys.
For Meg, surrogacy is not merely a transaction; it is a personal and intimate bond that connects families forever. She cherishes the connection she formed with the intended parents, seeking to match with those who genuinely wanted to be involved and foster a deep connection. The beautiful relationships she built with the families she carried for continue to thrive, as they remain close and visit each other in different cities.
Throughout this journey, Meg’s dedication to her own family’s involvement in the process was unwavering. Both families of the intended parents were incredibly gracious and embraced Meg’s children as part of the surrogacy experience. One set of intended parents even flew her entire family to Denver, where they could spend quality time together, forging lifelong bonds.
After giving birth to the surrogacy babies, Meg’s children were overjoyed to meet them at the hospital and bid farewell to the intended parents, creating lasting memories for everyone involved. For Meg and her family, this journey has become an embodiment of their desire to serve others, even in unconventional yet deeply meaningful ways. In surrogacy, they have found a beautiful channel to touch lives and make a difference, turning dreams into reality for those in need.
Paige first learned about surrogacy from watching a show called Giuliana and Bill. She was fascinated! The show shared everything from IVF, to miscarriages, to their entire surrogacy journey. Her daughter was a baby at the time, and she recalls thinking that she could totally be a surrogate. She didn’t know anyone who had done that before. Surrogacy was still on her mind for the next few years. She met a few girls at church that had been surrogates and began to ask ALL the questions about their experiences. She was turning 30 in March of 2020 and felt like the timing was right, now or never! She doesn’t like to live with regrets, so she applied to Surrogate Solutions in Feb 2020, right before COVID. That delayed things big time!
She wanted Intended Parents that she could have a friendship with, not a business transaction. She was perfectly matched in October 2020. Her Intended Mother (IM) is now one of her best friends and they clicked immediately. Surrogacy introduced her to her soul sister (IM) and they both believe they were meant to be on this journey together. She had a great pregnancy and delivered their son in November 2021. Luckily, her Intended Parents (IPs) and husband were all allowed to be in the room at delivery, even with COVID restrictions. Surrobaby went straight to his mom, and they all just naturally fit together. You would never know she didn’t carry him herself.
When Paige and her Intended Parents hugged each other goodbye she remembers saying, “This journey is absolutely everything I dreamed of.” Her Intended Mom said, “And more.”
The most amazing journey!
They still talk weekly and are currently in the process of a sibling journey! She feels that it is so wild to see the little life that she, alongside his parents, helped to create and get here safely! She says it feels surreal. But she continues to live her life with no regrets and views surrogacy as one of her biggest accomplishments in life
Her IPs are like a second family, even her children agree. She loves that surrogacy was also never confusing for her kids and they got to experience this journey with them as well. They are little surrogacy advocates and some of the biggest supporters!
Paige has a Master’s in Social Work and before joining Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions worked side by side with the County Prosecutor and was the Victim Advocate for her county. As a Surrogacy Coordinator, Paige guides and advocates for both surrogates and intended parents on their journeys. She lives in Southern Illinois and enjoys spending time with her husband and their two children in her free time. To relax, she loves to walk up and down the aisles at Target, thrifting home décor, going out to dinner, or curling up on the couch to watch her comfort shows.
After the birth of her second daughter, Pashey listened to a friend talk about her second Surrogate journey and loved how she spoke so highly about the process. Pashey started researching. Being blessed with two daughters of her own, she wanted to help other families have that same joy of children that she had. After months of research, Pashey brought the idea to her husband, but they both decided the timing just wasn’t right yet. Since they weren’t sure if they were done having their own children, they decided to wait to talk more about it.
After a few years, a close friend of Pashey’s was going through the IVF process. Pashey was right by her side receiving the happy news that the transfer had worked, and then weeks later when her friend received the call that the beta numbers were dropping, and that the pregnancy was ending. Hearts were broken, lots of tears shed, and she began questioning everything. As Pashey struggled to find the right things to say or how she could help, she started to pray. This was when Pashey knew this was the Lord’s timing. She felt peace with her family and knew she could make a difference for others. After a few more months of researching, she landed on Surrogate Solutions and was matched with a sweet couple out of Dallas.
After matching she soon found out that her intended mom had herself become pregnant naturally with their own child. Pashey agreed to wait to move forward until they knew all was well with the baby and the pregnancy was strong. They did move on with screening and contracts. After the baby was born, all steps were complete and Pashey was ready to transfer. Unfortunately, the results were not what everyone had hoped for, it was a failed transfer. The Intended Parents and Pashey were saddened and knowing the Intended Mother had just had a successful pregnancy just a few months ago they decided to transfer the final embryo to herself.
Parting ways, but full of hope for them Pashey thought on the decision to rematch. In 2021, Pashey was rematched with another couple out of Dallas. She delivered their daughter in 2022. Delivery day was beautiful, getting to watch dad cutting the umbilical cord and the raw emotion he showed was amazing. Seeing mom soaking in skin to sink was pure love. This journey was something she will never forget or be able to explain just how truly amazing it was.
Now, Pashey has the joy of still being a part of helping to create families as a Surrogacy Coordinator for Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions. Guiding and supporting surrogates and intended parents throughout their journey is such a special opportunity. Pashey and her husband live in the Tulsa area with their two children. They love spending time at a sports complex watching their girls play the sports they love, camping at the lake during the summer, and family game nights.
From the very start, Whitney knew that being a surrogate was her calling, something she was destined to do. The inspiration came to her after experiencing the sheer joy and love of pregnancy during the birth of her eldest daughter. It was a revelation that stirred something profound within her soul.
However, Whitney knew the importance of completing her own family first, and so, along with her husband, she patiently put the idea on hold until after the birth of their beloved twins. When the time was right, the universe aligned, and Whitney’s path led her to explore surrogacy. A serendipitous encounter with a friend’s sister, who was using a surrogate, led her to Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions. Within a mere two weeks, she found herself matched with her first set of intended parents, and the beautiful journey began.
Her connection with the intended parents was easy and relaxed, like a harmonious symphony of hearts beating as one. Unexpectedly, the embryo split, and twin girls were on their way into the world. Whitney fondly recalls the moment during the sonogram when the intended parents discovered they were expecting twins, a reflection of her own surprise during her twin pregnancy. This shared experience birthed not only two precious lives but a lasting and loving friendship with the intended parents, a bond that still thrives to this day. Whitney rejoices in being part of their lives, attending birthday parties and t-ball games, cherishing every photo update as if they were her own family.
After the first magical surrogacy journey, doubts about her eligibility for a second surfaced due to her previous c-section deliveries. But determination and the magic of life prevailed, granting her the opportunity to deliver a baby boy for another set of intended parents. Witnessing these first-time parents on their journey of healing and embracing the joy of parenthood brought a new kind of fulfillment to Whitney’s heart.
Now, as a Surrogacy Coordinator, Whitney continues to embrace her role in helping to create families, supporting each individual involved from the initial match all the way through the first six months after delivery. She takes pride in being their unwavering cheerleader and resource during this incredible process. Beyond her coordinator duties, Whitney’s passion for the industry shines through as she hosts the podcast “Me, You, Who?!” where she delights in sharing everyone’s unique and inspiring stories in a fun and engaging way.
In her personal life, Whitney resides in Houston, Texas, with her husband and three children. Her husband’s dedication to teaching and coaching brings immense joy to their family, and they proudly cheer him on from the football field. The whole family relishes in fun movie nights, and with the blessing of having extended family nearby, they frequently come together for joyous family parties and gatherings, creating cherished memories that last a lifetime.
Shannon’s decision to become a surrogate was never about herself but was driven by an unwavering desire to help others experience the beautiful joys of parenthood. Generosity, compassion, and empathy are not just words for Shannon; they are the guiding principles of her life.
Her benevolence knows no bounds. Not only has she donated her hair to Locks of Love three times, but she has also reached out across borders to support schools in the Dominican Republic, showing her love for humanity knows no borders. But her journey into surrogacy was a calling that she couldn’t ignore, even after completing her own family. It was a desire to give more, to spread the love she had in abundance.
Among the many agencies, she found her true calling at Egg Donor and Surrogate Solutions. It was an instant connection, like finding a “home” within the agency. And when she received the profiles to consider, she knew deep down that one of them was meant to be. The excitement was palpable, tinged with a touch of nerves, as she embarked on this life-changing journey with the intended parents.
Every step of the way was filled with beautiful moments, etched in her heart forever. From their first meeting to joyous family gatherings, from hearing the precious heartbeat for the first time to the awe-inspiring delivery day, Shannon embraced every moment with love and selflessness. She was overjoyed to be granted the incredible honor of becoming the Godparent to the little bundle of joy she helped bring into this world.
Surrogacy not only expanded the intended parents’ family but also created an unbreakable bond between Shannon and her family and the intended parents and theirs. This unique experience brought them closer together, forever connected by the profound love and hope they shared.
Now, as an Egg Donor and Surrogacy Coordinator, Shannon’s journey continues, bridging the gap between different paths to parenthood. Her dedication ensures that intended parents have a supportive and caring guide from the moment they choose an egg donor until they hold their precious bundle of joy in their arms. For Shannon, being a part of someone’s journey, no matter how small, is a cherished honor.
In the quaint town of Middletown, PA, Shannon and her husband have built a haven of love and happiness. Their nights are filled with the laughter of their two children and the joy of being together as a family. Whether they are cheering on at sporting events, splashing in the pool, exploring new tastes, or simply having fun, their lives are a testament to the warmth and love that Shannon brings to every aspect of her life.
AT EGG DONOR & SURROGATE SOLUTIONS, WE HAVE DONE IT, YOU CAN TOO! FULFILL YOUR DREAM OF BEING A SURROGATE.
At Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, you will be cared for & supported by an agency of former surrogates. To date we have personally carried for 24 families.
Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions was founded by a surrogate who felt there was a gap in the industry. She was looking to create an agency that served both surrogates and intended parents as well. Everyone should experience JOY in this journey! Our team of carriers knows first-hand the feelings you are experiencing. We know your desire to help, serve, & match with a family that is right for you. We know this because we were right where you are.
You will be given your own personal care coordinator from beginning to end (including postpartum). Our level of empathy, support, and advocacy goes above & beyond. We will be by your side every step of the way.
